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March 24th, 2008

dr apt 3.24.08

dr apt 3.24.08
posted on 03/24/2008

so at my last dr appointment (3.11) my belly was measuring about 2-3 weeks ahead of schedule. in baby belly world they take an actual measuring tape and measure from belly button up to the crest of the uterus (yes, you can feel this right under your boobs). the number of centimeters should roughly correlate with the number of weeks prego you are. so, on the 11th my belly was 35 centimeters, but i was only 32 wks prego.

the thought that we could be having a behemoth of a baby really wasn’t that shocking. in fact, i’ve been assuming that would be the case all along. a 6 or 7 lber just really never entered my mind – i’ve been thinking 9+ the whole time. 

so to get a more accurate idea of really what was happening in that cozy little (or not so little) uterus, i had an ultra sound today to measure the baby.  quite similar to the 20 wk anatomy scan, they measure the circumference of the head, the stomach, the femur, etc. and come up with an “age” of the baby based on weeks. today i am 35 wks 1 day pregnant, but the baby is measuring 38 wks 3 days old. i happen to know for sure  that the baby was not conceived any earlier than first expected, so this just means that he is slightly bigger than normal 35 wk bambinos…

in two weeks i will go to st. francis (the big hospital where i’ll deliver) and get a second opinion ultra sound to make sure the one today was accurate (a.k.a let’s have you do this as many times as possible so we can milk your insurance company for all its worth).

if that u/s also puts me ahead of schedule by a few weeks then we will have a “collaborative meeting” to discuss L&D options. sounds like no matter what the results in two weeks, i will not be induced unless i go over 40 wks. once in labor if things aren’t progressing rather routinely, i would not be left to labor for 30+ hours. i would probably go in for a c-section.

my dr recommended that i cut out sugar and excess carbs from here  on out to try to curtail any major weight gain from the baby. if he were to gain the 1/2 pound per week, which is expected now, he would be about 10.5 lbs on april 27th…hmmm, sound familiar mom?

surprisingly, or maybe not, i’m not worried in the least. i just want the biggest, healthiest baby possible. and if that means keeping my female anatomy in 1-3 pieces, vs 5-10 i would be plenty happy.

oh, and on a last note – the ultrasound confirmed male genitalia (phew) and showed that he has at least one of mom’s baby features – chubby, chubby chipmunk cheeks!

 

 

March 22nd, 2008

baby shower bliss

03/22/2008

to say i am in awe of all the love and support from my new hampshire baby shower would be an extreme understatement. i am still looking back on that wonderful day, at the dozens of women celebrating this new life i am growing, and smiling a great big humble smile of gratitue and appreciation.

the day was fabulous – the picture perfect spot in a lodge overlooking a snowy new hampshire pond, amazing food and desserts and the most gorgeous cake you’ve ever seen. friends and family from near and from far all to gather round and shine their love, give a gift and rub my belly. it rocked.

i had been so looking forward to this day, to all the people i hadn’t seen in way too long and to all the catching up and visiting — but much like my wedding day all of these precious people and so little time. there were the hello’s, the thank you’s and then the goodbyes and god damn it, i needed like  6 hours more.

although the day was over before i could really soak it all up, the warmth and love in that room will always be etched in my memory. the thoughtfulness and support of so many people, all for me and for this little boy. it’s quite overwhelming.

driving home to connecticut with a car packed to the gills (bayla nestled in between two boppies and a highchair) i thought about how truly lucky i am. how in a relatively short time on earth my path has crossed so many beautiful people. the family i choose to be born into, the one that i am lucky enough to have married into and the dozens of truly amazing friends who have become family…

because of my fortune my son is being born into a family of instant unconditional love. i am sure there is no better way for any being to be born and i am so grateful and so appreciative that he will open his eyes the first time to a world brimming with excitement and bliss - all for him.

thank you everyone from the bottom of my heart…


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